Space, the final frontier. At least in Star Trek it was. Now you may be wondering how do I get my ex back when he wants more space? That is if you just broke up for that reason. This type of frontier is littered with complicated reasons. Understanding those reason may help you navigate this frontier and get your ex back. Here are a few examples of this emotional frontier, family crisis or interference. Personal insecurities. Some even have a fear of commitment. There is always the possibility that you are to possessive as well.
During these times it is easy to get emotional and over react. This usually has the opposite result, and will drive most guys away for good. So keep your head and give him some space. I do not suggest playing hard to get, because this may just make him justify leaving you for good. Remember you are trying to get him back, stay focused.
Stay close but not real close, a voice mail now and then, maybe a text, You need to respect his need for space, yet find a solution for a way for you to get back together and both be happy. Absence can make the heart grow fonder…
Once He realizes you respect his need for space it is time to slowly reconnect. You can do this by remembering what brought you two together in the first place. Share laughs over the good times you spent together. Get in touch again like the best friends you were before.
If by now you are not getting anywhere, maybe it is time to move on. Only you can judge that. If it is make sure to be friendly and respectful. Every now and then it takes a message of finality to wake up a guy to see what he is truly losing. So it may take the strength of moving on to get your boyfriend back. Keep your focus, and look for tiny signals in his smile, his touch, his words, and maybe his laughter. This will tell you whether to continue or to move on.
This is a good start and should make you able to confidently ask and answer – How do I get my ex back if he wants more space?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 5, 2009
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in Five Easy Steps!
If you have recently experienced a break up with your girlfriend and find yourself wondering… is there in hope of getting back together? There is hope. Odds are much more in your favor if you have a plan. So if you are serious, and need to know… How to get your ex girlfriend back? Then follow my 5 easy step plan.
1. You know her better than I do… However many guys forget that and just come on to strong. That will drive most women away. So bad idea! Better idea, you might need to start with an apology, depending on why you broke up. Maybe even flowers and a thoughtful card. Reach out in a friendly way, not a desperate way. BE NICE! Be a friend that cares (and maybe sorry)! This way you are still part of her life without being a pest.
2. Using email or texting or gentle ways to keep in contact are good. Just take it easy and do not over do it. Do not post on my space playing the bleeding heart lost lover. That is over the top. Keep it friendly and nice.
3. It is ok to go out with friends. Especially supportive friends. Do not play the field though. That can blow up in your face. Even if you see her out and about with another guy. Do not try to get even. Stay friendly… Remember she loved you once…. So she can love you again, if you give her good reasons to.
4. During this time of separation holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries may come and go. This is a great time to get somewhat sentimental in your communications. Use this time to say you miss her and bring back memories of the best most loving times you two shared… Help her remember the love you had together.
5. This is all about communications… Your communications need to build trust and re-connect to the love you shared. As time goes by increase your sentiment and always share how much care about her happiness. As this progresses she should come to the realization on her own, that her future, and best happiness is with you!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
1. You know her better than I do… However many guys forget that and just come on to strong. That will drive most women away. So bad idea! Better idea, you might need to start with an apology, depending on why you broke up. Maybe even flowers and a thoughtful card. Reach out in a friendly way, not a desperate way. BE NICE! Be a friend that cares (and maybe sorry)! This way you are still part of her life without being a pest.
2. Using email or texting or gentle ways to keep in contact are good. Just take it easy and do not over do it. Do not post on my space playing the bleeding heart lost lover. That is over the top. Keep it friendly and nice.
3. It is ok to go out with friends. Especially supportive friends. Do not play the field though. That can blow up in your face. Even if you see her out and about with another guy. Do not try to get even. Stay friendly… Remember she loved you once…. So she can love you again, if you give her good reasons to.
4. During this time of separation holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries may come and go. This is a great time to get somewhat sentimental in your communications. Use this time to say you miss her and bring back memories of the best most loving times you two shared… Help her remember the love you had together.
5. This is all about communications… Your communications need to build trust and re-connect to the love you shared. As time goes by increase your sentiment and always share how much care about her happiness. As this progresses she should come to the realization on her own, that her future, and best happiness is with you!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?
So you think you can get back your ex girlfriend. I admire your positive thinking. The truth is, you may be right. All depends on how you go about it, and how bad you screwed up in the first place. The worse you screwed up the harder it will be, and the more you have to apologize for. However only if you really mean it! This is not the time for phony baloney…
You may be thinking that to get your ex girlfriend back you need to expose your sensitive side to her… Yeah right… Sounds like more baloney to me. Each break up has it own unique set of circumstances. You have been with her, you got her to fall in love with you, you know her, you also screwed up… So you should have an idea of what it will take to get her back.
Ask yourself, will giving her flowers get your ex girlfriend back? Will it take poetry, song and dance, a sincere apology. Keep in mind why you broke up in the first place. You still need to fix that. When I say fix, it has to be real. You really need to find the real reason she left you. Then be honest about how you can fix it. You also need to be able to live with the fix.
Most women complain after a break up that the main reason was they felt emotionally abandoned. Does that help? I hope so! Do you even know what I am saying? You need to understand this if you want to get your ex girlfriend back!
Think about it… If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back you need to be there emotionally for her… I bet you were in the beginning… Most lovers are really best friends with benefits…. So find away to reconnect to her emotionally as a best friend and the benefits of love will return.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
You may be thinking that to get your ex girlfriend back you need to expose your sensitive side to her… Yeah right… Sounds like more baloney to me. Each break up has it own unique set of circumstances. You have been with her, you got her to fall in love with you, you know her, you also screwed up… So you should have an idea of what it will take to get her back.
Ask yourself, will giving her flowers get your ex girlfriend back? Will it take poetry, song and dance, a sincere apology. Keep in mind why you broke up in the first place. You still need to fix that. When I say fix, it has to be real. You really need to find the real reason she left you. Then be honest about how you can fix it. You also need to be able to live with the fix.
Most women complain after a break up that the main reason was they felt emotionally abandoned. Does that help? I hope so! Do you even know what I am saying? You need to understand this if you want to get your ex girlfriend back!
Think about it… If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back you need to be there emotionally for her… I bet you were in the beginning… Most lovers are really best friends with benefits…. So find away to reconnect to her emotionally as a best friend and the benefits of love will return.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Friday, February 27, 2009
I’m Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
Can I get my ex boyfriend back is a common question after a break up, for the person who did not see it coming and is still in love. In some cases it is possible to get your ex boyfriend back. Not always though. So take an honest look at why you broke up. If you really believe you can get him back let’s take a look at a few things that will help you.
Start by being nice. I know that sounds simple… yet during the heartbreak and emotional turmoil of a break up it is often overlooked. Many times the reason for the break up is due to conflicts and arguments. So be nice, do not create conflicts and argue. It will be a breathe of fresh air and may remind him why he fell in love with you in the first place.
Another thing you can do to get your ex boyfriend back is get him jealous… NOT! Do not play games… Do not be something you are not. If you feel the need to play games or pretend to be something you are not… You are in the wrong relationship and he did you a favor by letting you go.
You need to take a serious look at WHY you two broke up. Instead of asking yourself how can I get my ex boyfriend back, you should be asking yourself what happened, and can I fix it? Once you figure out what happened and have a solution to fix it. Contact your ex boyfriend. Do this after being nice and allowing your ex boyfriend to be comfortable around you. Explain that you accept your part in the break up and offer your solution to make it better.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Start by being nice. I know that sounds simple… yet during the heartbreak and emotional turmoil of a break up it is often overlooked. Many times the reason for the break up is due to conflicts and arguments. So be nice, do not create conflicts and argue. It will be a breathe of fresh air and may remind him why he fell in love with you in the first place.
Another thing you can do to get your ex boyfriend back is get him jealous… NOT! Do not play games… Do not be something you are not. If you feel the need to play games or pretend to be something you are not… You are in the wrong relationship and he did you a favor by letting you go.
You need to take a serious look at WHY you two broke up. Instead of asking yourself how can I get my ex boyfriend back, you should be asking yourself what happened, and can I fix it? Once you figure out what happened and have a solution to fix it. Contact your ex boyfriend. Do this after being nice and allowing your ex boyfriend to be comfortable around you. Explain that you accept your part in the break up and offer your solution to make it better.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, February 26, 2009
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back
I could call this article GAMES WE PLAY! Really when you break up or in the case of most reading… when you get dumped, Spock dies…lol little Start Trek humor… In other words logic is lost, and emotions rule the day. Getting even, getting back at the dumper overcome common sense. It is easy to lose focus, keep in mind if you are reading this your focus should be getting your ex back!
So for those reading that know someone…(hehehee we all know it’s you) or are the one that’s wants their ex back, forget the games. Get over the get even feelings and focus and what you can do to get your ex back!
First off… OUCH, if you got dumped, you messed up! That’s the honest truth, whoops maybe you dated a nut… Doubt it, but if you did, and want them back this is not the article for you. OK you screwed up! Now you have to honestly ask yourself can I live with the fix? This is time for honesty with yourself. If not… move on. If yes then fix what you broke. Present your solution and get back together.
It really is that simple for those honest and serious enough to do the work, and have enough love enough to move forward
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
So for those reading that know someone…(hehehee we all know it’s you) or are the one that’s wants their ex back, forget the games. Get over the get even feelings and focus and what you can do to get your ex back!
First off… OUCH, if you got dumped, you messed up! That’s the honest truth, whoops maybe you dated a nut… Doubt it, but if you did, and want them back this is not the article for you. OK you screwed up! Now you have to honestly ask yourself can I live with the fix? This is time for honesty with yourself. If not… move on. If yes then fix what you broke. Present your solution and get back together.
It really is that simple for those honest and serious enough to do the work, and have enough love enough to move forward
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How can I Get my Ex Back with a Confident Attitude?
If you just experienced a break up you may be feeling pretty down as well as very sad. That is totally understandable. For some of you this can be a temporary set back. If you find yourself wanting to get back together with you ex, and asking yourself over and over, how can I get my ex back? I have some suggestions as to things you can do. Keep in mind though there are also things you can do to drive them away. So pay attention, if nothing else at least don’t drive them away further.
Let’s talk confidence, you know as in the title of this article. As alluded to above it is an attitude, a projection if you will. I remember days gone by when I was hanging out with Tony Robbins in Southern Calif. I was a facilitator at Tonys Team meetings (by the way, it takes a lot of confidence to do the firewalk, I have done it twice!) Tony loves to say “fake it, till you make it!” So if it is good enough for Tony it should be good enough for you. No matter how depressed or sad you are. You need to project confidence… It is ok to be sad and grieve about a lost love. However our goal here is to get your ex back. So grieve in private and in any other time or place project confidence.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Here a tip to make this easier. Hang out with confident, positive, supportive friends. This actually benefits you in 2 ways. Helps keep you confident that you can get your ex back. The second benefit assumes that your supportive circle of friends and your ex’s friends overlap and eventually your ex will hear of your confidence and about all the fun you are having. Some breaks are not really break ups, they are just… leave me alone until I figure this out! So if you are out and about looking confident and happy your ex will be more likely to get back together with you.
So far so good, by now you should have a basic understanding of projecting confidence, and hanging around supportive people. One small yet important thing to keep in mind is personal appearance. Look your best, in public and in private. Dress well, smile often, keep a tidy in attire, and residence. Who knows who will drop by? Most of all be open to all positive possibilities… Not everyone reading this that is hoping to get their ex back… will. However you may find an upgrade is just around the corner, so be ready for anything positive!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Let’s talk confidence, you know as in the title of this article. As alluded to above it is an attitude, a projection if you will. I remember days gone by when I was hanging out with Tony Robbins in Southern Calif. I was a facilitator at Tonys Team meetings (by the way, it takes a lot of confidence to do the firewalk, I have done it twice!) Tony loves to say “fake it, till you make it!” So if it is good enough for Tony it should be good enough for you. No matter how depressed or sad you are. You need to project confidence… It is ok to be sad and grieve about a lost love. However our goal here is to get your ex back. So grieve in private and in any other time or place project confidence.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Here a tip to make this easier. Hang out with confident, positive, supportive friends. This actually benefits you in 2 ways. Helps keep you confident that you can get your ex back. The second benefit assumes that your supportive circle of friends and your ex’s friends overlap and eventually your ex will hear of your confidence and about all the fun you are having. Some breaks are not really break ups, they are just… leave me alone until I figure this out! So if you are out and about looking confident and happy your ex will be more likely to get back together with you.
So far so good, by now you should have a basic understanding of projecting confidence, and hanging around supportive people. One small yet important thing to keep in mind is personal appearance. Look your best, in public and in private. Dress well, smile often, keep a tidy in attire, and residence. Who knows who will drop by? Most of all be open to all positive possibilities… Not everyone reading this that is hoping to get their ex back… will. However you may find an upgrade is just around the corner, so be ready for anything positive!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me? How To Tell!
The time may come where it seems your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or thinking about going out and spending time with you. She may even be flirting with you. This may get your hopes up. Do not rush in though, even as you are asking yourself "does my ex want to get back with me?".
It is very common that your ex shows signs she is interested in getting you back. But even if you think it is a good idea, you should not jump into things. It's best to play to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you rush into things, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.
At times when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a certain level of missing each other, or even a longing to get back together. This can be especially true in relationships lasting a year or more. It is understandable that he or she is going to miss you no matter what. This is due all the memories that you shared together. There are many emotions that come into play during this time. Once again you may be wondering, "does my ex want to get back with me" he or she may be thinking the same thing...
You have to be very careful though when an ex shows interest again after a break up. Many times they are only playing games. If they think that you still love them, they may be trying to get attention without really intending to get back together. So pay attention and make sure they are really interested in spending time together. Some like to have you on a leash until something better comes along. Worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to rush in, and why you should focus on getting a feel for the situation before you rush in.
For many couple going through a break up this can be a common thing, it makes people wonder "does my ex want to get back with me?", the truth is, its better to feel out the situation before rushing in. The reality is, if your ex does want you back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best way to go, it will also keep you from getting hurt. Maybe your ex is not really serious about getting back with you. So be patient.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
It is very common that your ex shows signs she is interested in getting you back. But even if you think it is a good idea, you should not jump into things. It's best to play to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you rush into things, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.
At times when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a certain level of missing each other, or even a longing to get back together. This can be especially true in relationships lasting a year or more. It is understandable that he or she is going to miss you no matter what. This is due all the memories that you shared together. There are many emotions that come into play during this time. Once again you may be wondering, "does my ex want to get back with me" he or she may be thinking the same thing...
You have to be very careful though when an ex shows interest again after a break up. Many times they are only playing games. If they think that you still love them, they may be trying to get attention without really intending to get back together. So pay attention and make sure they are really interested in spending time together. Some like to have you on a leash until something better comes along. Worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to rush in, and why you should focus on getting a feel for the situation before you rush in.
For many couple going through a break up this can be a common thing, it makes people wonder "does my ex want to get back with me?", the truth is, its better to feel out the situation before rushing in. The reality is, if your ex does want you back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best way to go, it will also keep you from getting hurt. Maybe your ex is not really serious about getting back with you. So be patient.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How To Get An Ex Back!
How To Get An Ex Back
If you just experienced a break up, I bet you are wondering… How to get an ex back? Most adults have experienced some kind of beak up. Many just move on, other try to get their ex back. Some even play the victim, however if you are serious about getting your ex back, you have several choices. We all deal with the loss of a relationship in our own ways. For some though there is a chance to get your ex back.
A break up is a time out… meaning many times you can get your ex back. To do this you need to release your position, in other words get over yourself and get in sync as to your ex's reasons why you broke up. Many people get caught up in their position and never have empathy for their ex's reasons…. Understanding the why gives you a powerful way to "FIX" what broke you apart. Stop living in the past and focus on fixing what is broken. The only way this works is if you are truly in love, and just lost your way due to life's many needs, obligations, and distractions. Only you can answer that.
OK, are you ready for reality? Breakups happen for many reasons. Some long in the making, you know the straw that broke the camels back. OR, you screwed up big time… This list is never ending and you know what I am saying. Either way you can still save your relationship (well many times, not always) (if that last bit of info shot you down, you do not really want to get your ex back). So now is the time for honesty, if you screwed up big time… WHY… if you can not answer this and fix it then move on. If it is about a straw, well you need to look within, and ask can you adapt, and refocus your love. Many times a straw is a symptom of distraction… A job… Family… Friends, etc. Ask yourself and answer honestly… What's more important, my…(distractions) or my love? If you answer my love keep reading.
OK, now the rubber is about to meet the road. Take an acting class… LOL just joking, but some what serious. Strength and self confidence wins the day. No joke… Ask yourself… SELF how serious am I? Then act appropriately. If you LOVE your ex this is easy. If this is hard you are playing games… I know I say the harsh truth, not many want to hear it though.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
If you just experienced a break up, I bet you are wondering… How to get an ex back? Most adults have experienced some kind of beak up. Many just move on, other try to get their ex back. Some even play the victim, however if you are serious about getting your ex back, you have several choices. We all deal with the loss of a relationship in our own ways. For some though there is a chance to get your ex back.
A break up is a time out… meaning many times you can get your ex back. To do this you need to release your position, in other words get over yourself and get in sync as to your ex's reasons why you broke up. Many people get caught up in their position and never have empathy for their ex's reasons…. Understanding the why gives you a powerful way to "FIX" what broke you apart. Stop living in the past and focus on fixing what is broken. The only way this works is if you are truly in love, and just lost your way due to life's many needs, obligations, and distractions. Only you can answer that.
OK, are you ready for reality? Breakups happen for many reasons. Some long in the making, you know the straw that broke the camels back. OR, you screwed up big time… This list is never ending and you know what I am saying. Either way you can still save your relationship (well many times, not always) (if that last bit of info shot you down, you do not really want to get your ex back). So now is the time for honesty, if you screwed up big time… WHY… if you can not answer this and fix it then move on. If it is about a straw, well you need to look within, and ask can you adapt, and refocus your love. Many times a straw is a symptom of distraction… A job… Family… Friends, etc. Ask yourself and answer honestly… What's more important, my…(distractions) or my love? If you answer my love keep reading.
OK, now the rubber is about to meet the road. Take an acting class… LOL just joking, but some what serious. Strength and self confidence wins the day. No joke… Ask yourself… SELF how serious am I? Then act appropriately. If you LOVE your ex this is easy. If this is hard you are playing games… I know I say the harsh truth, not many want to hear it though.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How to get back at your ex!
Many of you thought the hard work was "getting" a significant other, in other words getting involved in a committed relationship. Well the reality is that was the start of the hard work. To continue to have the love of your life you need to work at it. Many people relax once they get "involved" and all of the sudden they find themselves broken up! Let's say that happened… Do you have sour grapes? It is very painful to lose the one you love. Some cry, some get depressed, some cling and beg and wine. There are many responses to a break up. Some even want to "GET EVEN". Let me advise you on the best response to a break up, if you goal is to get back together. The following are 5 tips on how to handle your break up and get back at your lost love, and possibly get them back at the same time.
1). Here it is, step one… Strength is attractive, weakness is for losers… Ok having said that… Oh man do I relate… My heart has been broken before… I know what I am asking is difficult, if you truly want your ex back. However I am telling you the best way to make it happen, be strong! It is up to you to decide what's more important, being angry, hurt and miserable, or getting your ex back with strength and dignity!
2). Now it is time to back off. The first instinct for many of you is to reach out to your ex. With the wide variety of communications available today it is so easy to overwhelm your ex. Back off!!! You will be surprised at how powerful this is combined with acting as if… from above. The 5 steps combined work together to give you incredible leverage to successfully get back together with your ex. By backing off you may even create some space where your ex may miss you… Think about it… we have all heard the saying…"absence makes the heart grow fonder". So make it work for you by backing off.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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3). Let's say you and ex are fighting about stuff, bills, moving out, etc. This is the time to relax and not make demands. Listen, be sympathetic, this can go a long ways in managing the stress that caused the initial problems in the first place. Once things settle down you may find a much more receptive ex that once all 5 techniques are working together is open to getting back together.
4).You have to get out… I mean it! Sitting around depressed and sad will definitely not get your ex back or get back at your ex… As a matter of fact it will strengthen their resolve to stay apart as you look like a loser, and nobody wants to get back with a loser. Be a winner and project that by going out with friends and having a good time… You will be surprised how much better you feel, and as a winner you will appear more appealing to your ex.
5). Get in touch with the you your ex fell in love with. Now do not sit around and get melancholy. Just remember the you that was loveable, and show your ex that the person they fell in love with is still around.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
1). Here it is, step one… Strength is attractive, weakness is for losers… Ok having said that… Oh man do I relate… My heart has been broken before… I know what I am asking is difficult, if you truly want your ex back. However I am telling you the best way to make it happen, be strong! It is up to you to decide what's more important, being angry, hurt and miserable, or getting your ex back with strength and dignity!
2). Now it is time to back off. The first instinct for many of you is to reach out to your ex. With the wide variety of communications available today it is so easy to overwhelm your ex. Back off!!! You will be surprised at how powerful this is combined with acting as if… from above. The 5 steps combined work together to give you incredible leverage to successfully get back together with your ex. By backing off you may even create some space where your ex may miss you… Think about it… we have all heard the saying…"absence makes the heart grow fonder". So make it work for you by backing off.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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3). Let's say you and ex are fighting about stuff, bills, moving out, etc. This is the time to relax and not make demands. Listen, be sympathetic, this can go a long ways in managing the stress that caused the initial problems in the first place. Once things settle down you may find a much more receptive ex that once all 5 techniques are working together is open to getting back together.
4).You have to get out… I mean it! Sitting around depressed and sad will definitely not get your ex back or get back at your ex… As a matter of fact it will strengthen their resolve to stay apart as you look like a loser, and nobody wants to get back with a loser. Be a winner and project that by going out with friends and having a good time… You will be surprised how much better you feel, and as a winner you will appear more appealing to your ex.
5). Get in touch with the you your ex fell in love with. Now do not sit around and get melancholy. Just remember the you that was loveable, and show your ex that the person they fell in love with is still around.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend
So here you are, separated from the man you love. You are either angry or sad, or you go back and forth between the two. That is totally understandable. However if you really want to save what you just lost, and getting your ex boyfriend back is a top priority, then there is really good advice in this article for you. For now, try to see where you can compromise, where you can make a sacrifice that may open the door to relaxing the tension between you. This will start the getting back together feelings.
If you obsess on distracting issues then getting back together will be difficult. So take a deep breathe and be honest about how you got here. Being responsible will show your ex boyfriend you understand the problems and take responsibility for your part. This helps heal you both and puts you in the place where getting back together is a good thing. If you are obsessed with blame and being angry you will not see the real problems that got you here.
In many relationships that have the possibility to reconnect. The two main issues of the break up are usually to much attention as in being possessive, or to little attention, as in being distracted by work or other obligations. No man wants a woman that is jealous. No man wants a woman who is so busy she has no time for him. These are simple problems that can easily be overcome and you can get your ex boyfriend back if you have a solution that you can truly live with. If you can not live up to your commitment top either be less possessive or to spend more time together, then better to move on now. Otherwise you will just get hurt all over again later. Either way, take ownership of the problem, find a solution and present your commitment to solve these issues.
I know the general attitude of this article puts the blame on you. I only say it that way, because if the blame was his, I doubt your desire to get him back would be there. So this presupposes he broke up with you and you are hurting and crying and really want him back. I wish you the best…
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
If you obsess on distracting issues then getting back together will be difficult. So take a deep breathe and be honest about how you got here. Being responsible will show your ex boyfriend you understand the problems and take responsibility for your part. This helps heal you both and puts you in the place where getting back together is a good thing. If you are obsessed with blame and being angry you will not see the real problems that got you here.
In many relationships that have the possibility to reconnect. The two main issues of the break up are usually to much attention as in being possessive, or to little attention, as in being distracted by work or other obligations. No man wants a woman that is jealous. No man wants a woman who is so busy she has no time for him. These are simple problems that can easily be overcome and you can get your ex boyfriend back if you have a solution that you can truly live with. If you can not live up to your commitment top either be less possessive or to spend more time together, then better to move on now. Otherwise you will just get hurt all over again later. Either way, take ownership of the problem, find a solution and present your commitment to solve these issues.
I know the general attitude of this article puts the blame on you. I only say it that way, because if the blame was his, I doubt your desire to get him back would be there. So this presupposes he broke up with you and you are hurting and crying and really want him back. I wish you the best…
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
The Secret To Get Your Ex Return Your Call
Calling your ex after a break up is tough. Many times all you get is their voice mail. How do you get them to return your call? That question will be answered in the short article. The are ways to accomplish this.
Before I reveal the Secret… I would like to point out the obvious. Sometimes in the pain and hurt of a break up, you are not thinking clearly and are very emotional. This tends to make you say and do things without thinking them through. So here is what not to do….
Do not leave weak message that make you seem like you are begging. Many times out of frustration you may leave a message along the lines of….
Steve please call me back… I have to talk to you. I am so sorry please call me…please I need to talk to you!
Or just as bad you use a ploy like an emergency or something like that. These cries of desperation are not helping you at all. In some cases there are making things worse. Weakness is not pretty… I know you may be desperate and in a lot of pain, However get a hold of yourself before you make any calls and leave messages you will regret later.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Here comes the Secret… are you ready? That is a valid question actually, because for this to work you be prepared...
People have what I call triggers to action… They can be basic, I think is an example of that. You want to create curiosity and maybe some anticipation. That's why I said you need to prepare… So when they do return your call you are ready to take advantage of the connection. Here is a simple example of creating curiosity and anticipation….
Remember be confident and charming in your tone.
Hi Jenny, I wanted to call to say thank you and let you know I really appreciate what you did for me! Call me… I want to thank you in person… Talk to you soon!
Wow see… That's powerful, and will create curiosity and anticipation, They will be curious as to what they did that you are so grateful for as well as look forward to calling you back. This is where the preparation comes in… You need to answer that question.. What ARE YOU so grateful for? If love is in your heart I am confident you will find something… Just be ready fore the call!
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Before I reveal the Secret… I would like to point out the obvious. Sometimes in the pain and hurt of a break up, you are not thinking clearly and are very emotional. This tends to make you say and do things without thinking them through. So here is what not to do….
Do not leave weak message that make you seem like you are begging. Many times out of frustration you may leave a message along the lines of….
Steve please call me back… I have to talk to you. I am so sorry please call me…please I need to talk to you!
Or just as bad you use a ploy like an emergency or something like that. These cries of desperation are not helping you at all. In some cases there are making things worse. Weakness is not pretty… I know you may be desperate and in a lot of pain, However get a hold of yourself before you make any calls and leave messages you will regret later.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Here comes the Secret… are you ready? That is a valid question actually, because for this to work you be prepared...
People have what I call triggers to action… They can be basic, I think is an example of that. You want to create curiosity and maybe some anticipation. That's why I said you need to prepare… So when they do return your call you are ready to take advantage of the connection. Here is a simple example of creating curiosity and anticipation….
Remember be confident and charming in your tone.
Hi Jenny, I wanted to call to say thank you and let you know I really appreciate what you did for me! Call me… I want to thank you in person… Talk to you soon!
Wow see… That's powerful, and will create curiosity and anticipation, They will be curious as to what they did that you are so grateful for as well as look forward to calling you back. This is where the preparation comes in… You need to answer that question.. What ARE YOU so grateful for? If love is in your heart I am confident you will find something… Just be ready fore the call!
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How Can I Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend
So you are looking to get back with your ex girlfriend. This tells me you are suffering from a break up. You may be hoping that you can get her back. I know when you lose a loved one it is a very painful and emotional experience. Hanging on to a lost loved one is not always a good idea. For some guys it is hard to move on. However there are times when it is possible to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
I like to think of it as a process. One magic thing or action or deed will not usually do the trick. The process starts with honesty. You being honest with yourself. You need to validate that you truly are willing not only to get her back, but to deal with why she dumped you. Something is broken and needs to be fixed. So you need to not only get her back, but if you want to keep her you better have a good understanding of how and why you were dumped in the first place.
Now here is the plan… Not really complicated. However maybe not easy to accomplish. It deals with feelings, and perception. Your feelings and her perception. Let me explain… Your feelings are probably a mess, you are heartbroken, and possibly depressed and even desperate. Well guess what… If you do not manage these feelings there is no way you are getting her back… This is where her perception comes in to play. If she perceives you as weak, depressed, desperate etc that will drive her away, and depending on bad you screwed up, she may enjoy seeing you grovel and in pain. So if you are going to have any chance of getting back together with your ex girlfriend you better give her the perception that you are strong, confident, dependable, and most of all you have a fix for what was broken in your relationship.
I know it may seem I am pointing the blame for the failure of your relationship on the guy. The reason is if you are trying so hard to get you ex girlfriend back then she most likely broke up with you… meaning you screwed up. So fix what's broke, show her you are thoughtful, dependable and strong!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
I like to think of it as a process. One magic thing or action or deed will not usually do the trick. The process starts with honesty. You being honest with yourself. You need to validate that you truly are willing not only to get her back, but to deal with why she dumped you. Something is broken and needs to be fixed. So you need to not only get her back, but if you want to keep her you better have a good understanding of how and why you were dumped in the first place.
Now here is the plan… Not really complicated. However maybe not easy to accomplish. It deals with feelings, and perception. Your feelings and her perception. Let me explain… Your feelings are probably a mess, you are heartbroken, and possibly depressed and even desperate. Well guess what… If you do not manage these feelings there is no way you are getting her back… This is where her perception comes in to play. If she perceives you as weak, depressed, desperate etc that will drive her away, and depending on bad you screwed up, she may enjoy seeing you grovel and in pain. So if you are going to have any chance of getting back together with your ex girlfriend you better give her the perception that you are strong, confident, dependable, and most of all you have a fix for what was broken in your relationship.
I know it may seem I am pointing the blame for the failure of your relationship on the guy. The reason is if you are trying so hard to get you ex girlfriend back then she most likely broke up with you… meaning you screwed up. So fix what's broke, show her you are thoughtful, dependable and strong!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How do I Get Back Together with My Ex in 3 Steps
You just had a "BREAK UP" now you want to "MAKE UP". So what do you do? You need to turn that painful break up, into a passionate make up. Start by asking the obvious question… How do I get back together with my ex? Answer…. Read the following 3 steps….
Before we get to the 3 steps to get back together with your ex… Let's define 2 things not to do… First DO NOT reveal to your ex that you are sad and depressed … Might as well paint a big L for loser on your forehead… Second… Stay off the phone, email, and text until you have something of value to say. Crying and whining is to be done in private, not on the phone, not in public, or in an email or text. That is if you truly want to get your ex back.
Step1). You just broke up… accept it! Denial is not a river in Egypt. It is a state of mind, a state of mind that will not get your ex back. You both need time to adjust… Sometimes break ups are a flash reaction to a small thing and just by backing off your ex may realize they really do not want this to happen and all is forgiven… It also gives you time to make sure you really want to get back together. Also find ownership of why you broke up. Not owning, then repairing why you broke will only lead to another maybe even final break up.
Step2). Reread the things not to do! I know, it is all there, at least the first 2 steps are…. Sometimes getting back together is more about what you do not do than what you do. There is a part B to this though and just as important. I am assuming since the focus of yours is getting back together with your ex that you did not initiate the break up. So I also assume in your ex's opinion, you screwed up. OK then, sorry to hear that. BUT! That means you have to fix it! It's broke... You're single… OUCH! This is the hardest part of this whole process. Own what your ex has put on you as the reason why they dumped you. Most want to defend, explain, and make excuses. Those are the ones that never get their ex back. So choose… blah, blah, excuses and bs, or Sorry I screwed up! Here is how I can make it better… And be serious and have some honest solutions to the problem… and for some of you asking for forgiveness may be needed (you know who you are).
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Step3). This is based on doing all the work right in step 1 and 2. If you did you are prepared to meet your ex and talk about your break up. There has been enough time, you have been thoughtful and have a plan and maybe an apology. Now a thought to give you confidence… They loved you before… They can love you again… Be confident, apologetic, concerned, thoughtful, and most of all be the person they fell in love in the first place! See how easy that sounds… Well if you can keep your emotions under control it is doable. So go for it! I mean really they already dumped you. What do you have to lose?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Before we get to the 3 steps to get back together with your ex… Let's define 2 things not to do… First DO NOT reveal to your ex that you are sad and depressed … Might as well paint a big L for loser on your forehead… Second… Stay off the phone, email, and text until you have something of value to say. Crying and whining is to be done in private, not on the phone, not in public, or in an email or text. That is if you truly want to get your ex back.
Step1). You just broke up… accept it! Denial is not a river in Egypt. It is a state of mind, a state of mind that will not get your ex back. You both need time to adjust… Sometimes break ups are a flash reaction to a small thing and just by backing off your ex may realize they really do not want this to happen and all is forgiven… It also gives you time to make sure you really want to get back together. Also find ownership of why you broke up. Not owning, then repairing why you broke will only lead to another maybe even final break up.
Step2). Reread the things not to do! I know, it is all there, at least the first 2 steps are…. Sometimes getting back together is more about what you do not do than what you do. There is a part B to this though and just as important. I am assuming since the focus of yours is getting back together with your ex that you did not initiate the break up. So I also assume in your ex's opinion, you screwed up. OK then, sorry to hear that. BUT! That means you have to fix it! It's broke... You're single… OUCH! This is the hardest part of this whole process. Own what your ex has put on you as the reason why they dumped you. Most want to defend, explain, and make excuses. Those are the ones that never get their ex back. So choose… blah, blah, excuses and bs, or Sorry I screwed up! Here is how I can make it better… And be serious and have some honest solutions to the problem… and for some of you asking for forgiveness may be needed (you know who you are).
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Step3). This is based on doing all the work right in step 1 and 2. If you did you are prepared to meet your ex and talk about your break up. There has been enough time, you have been thoughtful and have a plan and maybe an apology. Now a thought to give you confidence… They loved you before… They can love you again… Be confident, apologetic, concerned, thoughtful, and most of all be the person they fell in love in the first place! See how easy that sounds… Well if you can keep your emotions under control it is doable. So go for it! I mean really they already dumped you. What do you have to lose?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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