How to get back at your ex!

Many of you thought the hard work was "getting" a significant other, in other words getting involved in a committed relationship. Well the reality is that was the start of the hard work. To continue to have the love of your life you need to work at it. Many people relax once they get "involved" and all of the sudden they find themselves broken up! Let's say that happened… Do you have sour grapes? It is very painful to lose the one you love. Some cry, some get depressed, some cling and beg and wine. There are many responses to a break up. Some even want to "GET EVEN". Let me advise you on the best response to a break up, if you goal is to get back together. The following are 5 tips on how to handle your break up and get back at your lost love, and possibly get them back at the same time.
1). Here it is, step one… Strength is attractive, weakness is for losers… Ok having said that… Oh man do I relate… My heart has been broken before… I know what I am asking is difficult, if you truly want your ex back. However I am telling you the best way to make it happen, be strong! It is up to you to decide what's more important, being angry, hurt and miserable, or getting your ex back with strength and dignity!

2). Now it is time to back off. The first instinct for many of you is to reach out to your ex. With the wide variety of communications available today it is so easy to overwhelm your ex. Back off!!! You will be surprised at how powerful this is combined with acting as if… from above. The 5 steps combined work together to give you incredible leverage to successfully get back together with your ex. By backing off you may even create some space where your ex may miss you… Think about it… we have all heard the saying…"absence makes the heart grow fonder". So make it work for you by backing off.

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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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3). Let's say you and ex are fighting about stuff, bills, moving out, etc. This is the time to relax and not make demands. Listen, be sympathetic, this can go a long ways in managing the stress that caused the initial problems in the first place. Once things settle down you may find a much more receptive ex that once all 5 techniques are working together is open to getting back together.

4).You have to get out… I mean it! Sitting around depressed and sad will definitely not get your ex back or get back at your ex… As a matter of fact it will strengthen their resolve to stay apart as you look like a loser, and nobody wants to get back with a loser. Be a winner and project that by going out with friends and having a good time… You will be surprised how much better you feel, and as a winner you will appear more appealing to your ex.

5). Get in touch with the you your ex fell in love with. Now do not sit around and get melancholy. Just remember the you that was loveable, and show your ex that the person they fell in love with is still around.

Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here