Space, the final frontier. At least in Star Trek it was. Now you may be wondering how do I get my ex back when he wants more space? That is if you just broke up for that reason. This type of frontier is littered with complicated reasons. Understanding those reason may help you navigate this frontier and get your ex back. Here are a few examples of this emotional frontier, family crisis or interference. Personal insecurities. Some even have a fear of commitment. There is always the possibility that you are to possessive as well.
During these times it is easy to get emotional and over react. This usually has the opposite result, and will drive most guys away for good. So keep your head and give him some space. I do not suggest playing hard to get, because this may just make him justify leaving you for good. Remember you are trying to get him back, stay focused.
Stay close but not real close, a voice mail now and then, maybe a text, You need to respect his need for space, yet find a solution for a way for you to get back together and both be happy. Absence can make the heart grow fonder…
Once He realizes you respect his need for space it is time to slowly reconnect. You can do this by remembering what brought you two together in the first place. Share laughs over the good times you spent together. Get in touch again like the best friends you were before.
If by now you are not getting anywhere, maybe it is time to move on. Only you can judge that. If it is make sure to be friendly and respectful. Every now and then it takes a message of finality to wake up a guy to see what he is truly losing. So it may take the strength of moving on to get your boyfriend back. Keep your focus, and look for tiny signals in his smile, his touch, his words, and maybe his laughter. This will tell you whether to continue or to move on.
This is a good start and should make you able to confidently ask and answer – How do I get my ex back if he wants more space?
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, March 5, 2009
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in Five Easy Steps!
If you have recently experienced a break up with your girlfriend and find yourself wondering… is there in hope of getting back together? There is hope. Odds are much more in your favor if you have a plan. So if you are serious, and need to know… How to get your ex girlfriend back? Then follow my 5 easy step plan.
1. You know her better than I do… However many guys forget that and just come on to strong. That will drive most women away. So bad idea! Better idea, you might need to start with an apology, depending on why you broke up. Maybe even flowers and a thoughtful card. Reach out in a friendly way, not a desperate way. BE NICE! Be a friend that cares (and maybe sorry)! This way you are still part of her life without being a pest.
2. Using email or texting or gentle ways to keep in contact are good. Just take it easy and do not over do it. Do not post on my space playing the bleeding heart lost lover. That is over the top. Keep it friendly and nice.
3. It is ok to go out with friends. Especially supportive friends. Do not play the field though. That can blow up in your face. Even if you see her out and about with another guy. Do not try to get even. Stay friendly… Remember she loved you once…. So she can love you again, if you give her good reasons to.
4. During this time of separation holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries may come and go. This is a great time to get somewhat sentimental in your communications. Use this time to say you miss her and bring back memories of the best most loving times you two shared… Help her remember the love you had together.
5. This is all about communications… Your communications need to build trust and re-connect to the love you shared. As time goes by increase your sentiment and always share how much care about her happiness. As this progresses she should come to the realization on her own, that her future, and best happiness is with you!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
1. You know her better than I do… However many guys forget that and just come on to strong. That will drive most women away. So bad idea! Better idea, you might need to start with an apology, depending on why you broke up. Maybe even flowers and a thoughtful card. Reach out in a friendly way, not a desperate way. BE NICE! Be a friend that cares (and maybe sorry)! This way you are still part of her life without being a pest.
2. Using email or texting or gentle ways to keep in contact are good. Just take it easy and do not over do it. Do not post on my space playing the bleeding heart lost lover. That is over the top. Keep it friendly and nice.
3. It is ok to go out with friends. Especially supportive friends. Do not play the field though. That can blow up in your face. Even if you see her out and about with another guy. Do not try to get even. Stay friendly… Remember she loved you once…. So she can love you again, if you give her good reasons to.
4. During this time of separation holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries may come and go. This is a great time to get somewhat sentimental in your communications. Use this time to say you miss her and bring back memories of the best most loving times you two shared… Help her remember the love you had together.
5. This is all about communications… Your communications need to build trust and re-connect to the love you shared. As time goes by increase your sentiment and always share how much care about her happiness. As this progresses she should come to the realization on her own, that her future, and best happiness is with you!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?
So you think you can get back your ex girlfriend. I admire your positive thinking. The truth is, you may be right. All depends on how you go about it, and how bad you screwed up in the first place. The worse you screwed up the harder it will be, and the more you have to apologize for. However only if you really mean it! This is not the time for phony baloney…
You may be thinking that to get your ex girlfriend back you need to expose your sensitive side to her… Yeah right… Sounds like more baloney to me. Each break up has it own unique set of circumstances. You have been with her, you got her to fall in love with you, you know her, you also screwed up… So you should have an idea of what it will take to get her back.
Ask yourself, will giving her flowers get your ex girlfriend back? Will it take poetry, song and dance, a sincere apology. Keep in mind why you broke up in the first place. You still need to fix that. When I say fix, it has to be real. You really need to find the real reason she left you. Then be honest about how you can fix it. You also need to be able to live with the fix.
Most women complain after a break up that the main reason was they felt emotionally abandoned. Does that help? I hope so! Do you even know what I am saying? You need to understand this if you want to get your ex girlfriend back!
Think about it… If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back you need to be there emotionally for her… I bet you were in the beginning… Most lovers are really best friends with benefits…. So find away to reconnect to her emotionally as a best friend and the benefits of love will return.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
You may be thinking that to get your ex girlfriend back you need to expose your sensitive side to her… Yeah right… Sounds like more baloney to me. Each break up has it own unique set of circumstances. You have been with her, you got her to fall in love with you, you know her, you also screwed up… So you should have an idea of what it will take to get her back.
Ask yourself, will giving her flowers get your ex girlfriend back? Will it take poetry, song and dance, a sincere apology. Keep in mind why you broke up in the first place. You still need to fix that. When I say fix, it has to be real. You really need to find the real reason she left you. Then be honest about how you can fix it. You also need to be able to live with the fix.
Most women complain after a break up that the main reason was they felt emotionally abandoned. Does that help? I hope so! Do you even know what I am saying? You need to understand this if you want to get your ex girlfriend back!
Think about it… If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back you need to be there emotionally for her… I bet you were in the beginning… Most lovers are really best friends with benefits…. So find away to reconnect to her emotionally as a best friend and the benefits of love will return.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Friday, February 27, 2009
I’m Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
Can I get my ex boyfriend back is a common question after a break up, for the person who did not see it coming and is still in love. In some cases it is possible to get your ex boyfriend back. Not always though. So take an honest look at why you broke up. If you really believe you can get him back let’s take a look at a few things that will help you.
Start by being nice. I know that sounds simple… yet during the heartbreak and emotional turmoil of a break up it is often overlooked. Many times the reason for the break up is due to conflicts and arguments. So be nice, do not create conflicts and argue. It will be a breathe of fresh air and may remind him why he fell in love with you in the first place.
Another thing you can do to get your ex boyfriend back is get him jealous… NOT! Do not play games… Do not be something you are not. If you feel the need to play games or pretend to be something you are not… You are in the wrong relationship and he did you a favor by letting you go.
You need to take a serious look at WHY you two broke up. Instead of asking yourself how can I get my ex boyfriend back, you should be asking yourself what happened, and can I fix it? Once you figure out what happened and have a solution to fix it. Contact your ex boyfriend. Do this after being nice and allowing your ex boyfriend to be comfortable around you. Explain that you accept your part in the break up and offer your solution to make it better.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Start by being nice. I know that sounds simple… yet during the heartbreak and emotional turmoil of a break up it is often overlooked. Many times the reason for the break up is due to conflicts and arguments. So be nice, do not create conflicts and argue. It will be a breathe of fresh air and may remind him why he fell in love with you in the first place.
Another thing you can do to get your ex boyfriend back is get him jealous… NOT! Do not play games… Do not be something you are not. If you feel the need to play games or pretend to be something you are not… You are in the wrong relationship and he did you a favor by letting you go.
You need to take a serious look at WHY you two broke up. Instead of asking yourself how can I get my ex boyfriend back, you should be asking yourself what happened, and can I fix it? Once you figure out what happened and have a solution to fix it. Contact your ex boyfriend. Do this after being nice and allowing your ex boyfriend to be comfortable around you. Explain that you accept your part in the break up and offer your solution to make it better.
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Thursday, February 26, 2009
What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back
I could call this article GAMES WE PLAY! Really when you break up or in the case of most reading… when you get dumped, Spock dies…lol little Start Trek humor… In other words logic is lost, and emotions rule the day. Getting even, getting back at the dumper overcome common sense. It is easy to lose focus, keep in mind if you are reading this your focus should be getting your ex back!
So for those reading that know someone…(hehehee we all know it’s you) or are the one that’s wants their ex back, forget the games. Get over the get even feelings and focus and what you can do to get your ex back!
First off… OUCH, if you got dumped, you messed up! That’s the honest truth, whoops maybe you dated a nut… Doubt it, but if you did, and want them back this is not the article for you. OK you screwed up! Now you have to honestly ask yourself can I live with the fix? This is time for honesty with yourself. If not… move on. If yes then fix what you broke. Present your solution and get back together.
It really is that simple for those honest and serious enough to do the work, and have enough love enough to move forward
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
So for those reading that know someone…(hehehee we all know it’s you) or are the one that’s wants their ex back, forget the games. Get over the get even feelings and focus and what you can do to get your ex back!
First off… OUCH, if you got dumped, you messed up! That’s the honest truth, whoops maybe you dated a nut… Doubt it, but if you did, and want them back this is not the article for you. OK you screwed up! Now you have to honestly ask yourself can I live with the fix? This is time for honesty with yourself. If not… move on. If yes then fix what you broke. Present your solution and get back together.
It really is that simple for those honest and serious enough to do the work, and have enough love enough to move forward
Good luck!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
How can I Get my Ex Back with a Confident Attitude?
If you just experienced a break up you may be feeling pretty down as well as very sad. That is totally understandable. For some of you this can be a temporary set back. If you find yourself wanting to get back together with you ex, and asking yourself over and over, how can I get my ex back? I have some suggestions as to things you can do. Keep in mind though there are also things you can do to drive them away. So pay attention, if nothing else at least don’t drive them away further.
Let’s talk confidence, you know as in the title of this article. As alluded to above it is an attitude, a projection if you will. I remember days gone by when I was hanging out with Tony Robbins in Southern Calif. I was a facilitator at Tonys Team meetings (by the way, it takes a lot of confidence to do the firewalk, I have done it twice!) Tony loves to say “fake it, till you make it!” So if it is good enough for Tony it should be good enough for you. No matter how depressed or sad you are. You need to project confidence… It is ok to be sad and grieve about a lost love. However our goal here is to get your ex back. So grieve in private and in any other time or place project confidence.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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Here a tip to make this easier. Hang out with confident, positive, supportive friends. This actually benefits you in 2 ways. Helps keep you confident that you can get your ex back. The second benefit assumes that your supportive circle of friends and your ex’s friends overlap and eventually your ex will hear of your confidence and about all the fun you are having. Some breaks are not really break ups, they are just… leave me alone until I figure this out! So if you are out and about looking confident and happy your ex will be more likely to get back together with you.
So far so good, by now you should have a basic understanding of projecting confidence, and hanging around supportive people. One small yet important thing to keep in mind is personal appearance. Look your best, in public and in private. Dress well, smile often, keep a tidy in attire, and residence. Who knows who will drop by? Most of all be open to all positive possibilities… Not everyone reading this that is hoping to get their ex back… will. However you may find an upgrade is just around the corner, so be ready for anything positive!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
Let’s talk confidence, you know as in the title of this article. As alluded to above it is an attitude, a projection if you will. I remember days gone by when I was hanging out with Tony Robbins in Southern Calif. I was a facilitator at Tonys Team meetings (by the way, it takes a lot of confidence to do the firewalk, I have done it twice!) Tony loves to say “fake it, till you make it!” So if it is good enough for Tony it should be good enough for you. No matter how depressed or sad you are. You need to project confidence… It is ok to be sad and grieve about a lost love. However our goal here is to get your ex back. So grieve in private and in any other time or place project confidence.
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Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
>>>>>>>>>>>
Here a tip to make this easier. Hang out with confident, positive, supportive friends. This actually benefits you in 2 ways. Helps keep you confident that you can get your ex back. The second benefit assumes that your supportive circle of friends and your ex’s friends overlap and eventually your ex will hear of your confidence and about all the fun you are having. Some breaks are not really break ups, they are just… leave me alone until I figure this out! So if you are out and about looking confident and happy your ex will be more likely to get back together with you.
So far so good, by now you should have a basic understanding of projecting confidence, and hanging around supportive people. One small yet important thing to keep in mind is personal appearance. Look your best, in public and in private. Dress well, smile often, keep a tidy in attire, and residence. Who knows who will drop by? Most of all be open to all positive possibilities… Not everyone reading this that is hoping to get their ex back… will. However you may find an upgrade is just around the corner, so be ready for anything positive!
Lee Clarke
Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. If this is you then The Magic Of Making Up is for you! If you need Help Getting Your Ex Back then make sure to check out this helpful guide and Get Your Ex Back By Clicking Here
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